- Words by Darcy Nybo Photography by Lia Crowe

Libby Coulthard discovered her love of music at a very young age.

害羞草研究所淲hen I was five, I used to set up concerts in my home for my parents. That害羞草研究所檚 when I first fell in love with music. I took piano lessons and took Royal Conservatory for four years, but I preferred to listen to something and then play by ear.害羞草研究所�

Libby, who was born and raised in Kelowna, was torn in several directions for a place to put her creativity.

害羞草研究所淥nce I got older, I started taking ballet. I was into so many different things right up to grade 12, including competitive horseback riding. Once I graduated, life happened, and music went on the back burner.害羞草研究所�

While Libby continued to be drawn towards singing, she was busy working and trying to make ends meet.

害羞草研究所淚 didn害羞草研究所檛 have any extra money to put into music lessons. I thought about it a million times. How can I get into this industry, how can I make this work for me? But it just didn害羞草研究所檛 work out. I didn害羞草研究所檛 have the resources and I was working different jobs. Then my mom got breast cancer and died a few years later. It wasn害羞草研究所檛 the right time to think about taking lessons.害羞草研究所�

Life continued its forward march and before she knew it, Libby was divorced with two small children and there was still no room to follow her passion.

Then, one day, she was invited out by friends to be a fourth in a golf game. She met a man there and seven years later, they were married. Fortunately for Libby, her husband recognized her passion for music.

害羞草研究所淔or my 50th birthday, my husband Shawn gave me lessons to Barb Samuel害羞草研究所檚 professional vocal program. At the time, I was struggling and feeling unfulfilled in my life. I had a great husband and great kids, but I felt an emptiness inside. Shawn has always tried to make my life better, and he recognized my passion even if I didn害羞草研究所檛.害羞草研究所�

Libby loved her vocal lessons (and at one point, she and her two daughters were all taking lessons). 害羞草研究所淎fter six years in the vocal program, Barb told me it was time for me to leave her program. She said I needed to go and spread my wings. She changed my life forever. I害羞草研究所檓 now a professional vocalist and I could never have done it without her. I am forever grateful.害羞草研究所�

Libby spread her wings by performing in Rock Me Baby with Sista B and the Boyz at the Creekside Theatre. The show was sold out. Three years later, in 2022, after COVID-19 shutdowns, it was sold out again.

害羞草研究所淭hat first performance was a surreal moment in my life; I could not believe it was happening. We rehearsed for months. The moment I stepped out on the stage, I locked eyes with Barb, and I knew I was more than ready. She trusted me and believed in me enough to include me in her show. The reviews were amazing, and I was high on life.害羞草研究所�

In 2021 Libby connected with her nephew, saxophonist Jesse Zeman.

害羞草研究所淲e started doing outdoor gigs, including outdoor events with Parks Alive. Jesse and I called ourselves L & JZ. He is such a talented musician. He was awarded most promising musician by Diana Krall back when he was in high school. We did soft rock, pop, R&B, jazz, almost everything. During that time we played a lot at the Vibrant Vine Winery.害羞草研究所�

In November 2021, L & JZ were performing again at Vibrant Vine when a man approached Libby and said his band was looking for a singer.

害羞草研究所淗e said it was a rock band and I害羞草研究所檇 be a good fit. I told him he probably had the wrong person. But he didn害羞草研究所檛 take no for an answer.害羞草研究所�

In April of 2022, Libby began rehearsals with her new band Instario.

害羞草研究所淚 was comfortable as a background singer,害羞草研究所� Libby said, 害羞草研究所渂ut they wanted me to be up front. I went and rehearsed. Even after the first gig I was really nervous to step into the lead singer role. I said to the band I didn害羞草研究所檛 know if this was for me害羞草研究所�I害羞草研究所檓 glad they pushed me because today our harmony vocals are what make Instario magic.害羞草研究所�

Instario play all classic rock songs, the kind of music Libby simply loves.

害羞草研究所淲e have Greg Gaspari on lead guitar, Jason Agostino on drums, Colin Moorman on bass and sax, and Roman Picco on keyboard and male lead vocals.害羞草研究所�

Libby confesses that at the first recital she ever sang, she thought she was going to throw up. Fortunately, that害羞草研究所檚 not the case today.

害羞草研究所淚 am now a confident singer. I still feel nervous before a show. I think it害羞草研究所檚 a good thing, you should never get too comfortable. You need nervous excitement because you don害羞草研究所檛 want to slip into complacency. If you get there, you don害羞草研究所檛 give 100 per cent to the audience. You can be the best technical singer in the world, but if you can害羞草研究所檛 connect to the people you害羞草研究所檙e performing for, you won害羞草研究所檛 last long. I believe a singer is only as good as the life they害羞草研究所檝e experienced. Sometimes it害羞草研究所檚 the hardest stuff that makes someone a good singer. Being able to relate with the lyrics and connect to your audience is so important.害羞草研究所�

Libby believes being a singer in a band isn害羞草研究所檛 just about entertainment.

害羞草研究所淚害羞草研究所檝e learned that I could take my talent and touch people害羞草研究所檚 lives in a positive way, in a way I never imagined before. There was one gig in 2022 when I was playing with Jesse at Kerry Park downtown. There were a lot of homeless people there, people with much bigger problems than I害羞草研究所檝e had. Being able to share my gift and sing to them was amazing 害羞草研究所� I saw spark, recognition and connection.害羞草研究所�

After that day in the park, Libby allowed her light to shine even brighter. She realized that by sharing her gift, she could make a small difference in her life and the lives of others.

害羞草研究所淚 truly feel that every gift a person has lying dormant in their soul has the potential to fill a void in someone else害羞草研究所檚 life. When we let our gifts lay dormant, they will trip us up over and over again until we pay attention to them and recognize they are valuable. You just have to embrace them and the recognition you receive for your efforts pales in comparison to the satisfaction that you feel when you are fulfilling your potential.害羞草研究所�

Today, Libby still plays periodically with L & JZ. She is also committed to singing with Instario.

害羞草研究所淭his is a special group of musicians, and I am excited about the upcoming gigs in 2023. For me, it害羞草研究所檚 all about sharing my gift with people. I no longer worry about perfection. Instead, I strive for connection.害羞草研究所�

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