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Care to Dance?

From never having danced before to becoming an instructor
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Photo by Lia Crowe, In Studio with Daniel - Arthur Murray

When you watch owner Daniel Seguin gracefully sashay and confidently twirl around the dance floor, it害羞草研究所檚 hard to believe he was once severely overweight and painfully shy.

害羞草研究所淚 started taking dance lessons because I was 5害羞草研究所6 and getting close to 195 pounds and I had to do something,害羞草研究所 the now svelte 53-year-old says.

Daniel, who was 26 at the time and living in Ottawa, had never danced before, but after seven months of lessons, he loved it so much he decided to become an instructor at Arthur Murray.

害羞草研究所淚 always thought you had to be tall and slim to be a dance instructor, but then an instructor who was my height started at the school and I realized that wasn害羞草研究所檛 true,害羞草研究所 he says. 害羞草研究所淲hen you watch ballroom dancing on TV, a lot of people think you have to be a certain body type or age to do it, but that害羞草研究所檚 just not the case. It害羞草研究所檚 one of the biggest misconceptions people have. I didn害羞草研究所檛 fit the mold at all.害羞草研究所

Daniel was working at Canada Post as an internal auditor for the money order division and didn害羞草研究所檛 fit the 害羞草研究所渁rts mold害羞草研究所 either. He害羞草研究所檇 grown up wanting to be a high school math teacher and loved numbers. But he didn害羞草研究所檛 realize something was missing until dance came into his life.

害羞草研究所淚 really enjoyed working with numbers and the checks and balances, but I was always a pretty creative kid growing up and it didn害羞草研究所檛 add to that,害羞草研究所 he explains. 害羞草研究所淲hen I became a dance teacher, those two worlds came together because music is numbers and creating patterns and creating routines.害羞草研究所

Choreographing cha-cha-chas and award-winning routines instead of crunching numbers on a spreadsheet, Daniel quickly found his passion.

害羞草研究所淒ance is just so freeing because you害羞草研究所檙e just able to feel the music and, for me, it害羞草研究所檚 making sure my partner feels good,害羞草研究所 he says. 害羞草研究所淚t害羞草研究所檚 a shared experience and it can be life-changing.害羞草研究所

For Daniel, who was never one of the popular kids in school and painfully shy in social situations, dance has given him confidence and opened up a world of opportunity.

害羞草研究所淚 probably would have been that guy who just has a couple of friends and does a lot of stuff as a loner,害羞草研究所 Daniel says. 害羞草研究所淏ut dancing has helped me break out of my shell. I think that害羞草研究所檚 one of the appeals of dancing 害羞草研究所 people want the opportunity to shine in some way.害羞草研究所

After Ottawa, Daniel moved to Chicago and then Edmonton to teach and manage studios before landing in Victoria and opening his own studio in Saanich Plaza last May.

害羞草研究所淚t was a 14-month-long search to find the right location and open our doors,害羞草研究所 Daniel says. 害羞草研究所淚t害羞草研究所檚 a great business model with lots of things I love and, as an owner, I can build on that and interact more with each student.害羞草研究所

Teaching people of all ages and ability levels for more than 27 years, Daniel has found that everyone comes for a different reason: from simply having fun or for weight loss to coping with PTSD or trying to recharge a relationship.

害羞草研究所淪ome people are lonely or may have lost a spouse and are ready to start meeting people again,害羞草研究所 he says. 害羞草研究所淎nd some people are just stressed at work and, at dance, their biggest worry is which foot is their left foot. It害羞草研究所檚 like a mini vacation in their lives.害羞草研究所

There have been a lot of success stories over the years, including couples headed for divorce falling back in love.

害羞草研究所淔or 40 minutes, they害羞草研究所檙e in each other害羞草研究所檚 arms and no longer watching TV side-by-side or even in different rooms,害羞草研究所 Daniel explains. 害羞草研究所淭hey start seeing the person they were interested in when they first started dating. It害羞草研究所檚 kind of magical when you see it because it害羞草研究所檚 a really special moment you害羞草研究所檙e witnessing.害羞草研究所

Another success story that害羞草研究所檚 really stuck with Daniel is a student early on in his career who was incredibly shy. When she first came to the studio, the young woman could hardly look up from the floor when having a conversation.

害羞草研究所淭hrough working with her and getting her to come out of her shell, people at work started noticing she had more confidence, she became part of their social group and she got promoted,害羞草研究所 he says. 害羞草研究所淪he also became good friends with another student and they started dating and that gentleman became her husband and they had a child together. We害羞草研究所檙e not psychiatrists or career builders, but the benefits she got from dancing brought out the beautiful person she already was on the inside.害羞草研究所

Daniel says it害羞草研究所檚 life-changing stories like that that keep him going.

害羞草研究所淵ou always hope you can make a difference in life. I don害羞草研究所檛 know if I have the right words to really convey how it feels, but it害羞草研究所檚 really special.害羞草研究所

Given his love of dance and what it can do, it害羞草研究所檚 hard to believe Daniel almost gave up on his passion early in his career. He was ready to quit after a few years, but encouragement from a dance competition judge spurred him on and convinced him to stick with it.

害羞草研究所淓veryone will tell you that to become really successful, a master will have failed more times than a beginner has ever tried and going through hardships makes the success so worthwhile,害羞草研究所 he says.

害羞草研究所淭he life lesson I got is that if there are hardships and tough times, you just have to ride through them and eventually you害羞草研究所檒l be able to realize all your dreams.害羞草研究所

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Photo by Lia Crowe, In Studio with Daniel - Arthur Murray
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Photo by Lia Crowe, In Studio with Daniel - Arthur Murray


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