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Remenda Swanson says she害羞草研究所檚 been to dozens of places in Canada, including two schools, to share her book 害羞草研究所淎 Family Outing,害羞草研究所� about what it was like when her teen son came out as gay.

In September, Humboldt Collegiate Institute in central Saskatchewan told her that due to a provincial government directive, it had to reject her from presenting at a student inclusion club later in the year.

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The author felt as if someone had kicked her in the gut, she said.

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The Horizon School Division, which oversees the high school, said in a statement that a staff member acted in a way they believed was in the best interest of the school and the division, and did not involve administrationin the decision to reject the author.

While it disagrees with some of the details recounted by Remenda Swanson, the division said it agrees schools need to be safe places for students and staff.

It said it apologizes for upsetting anyone and will work to ensure similar situations in the future are addressed appropriately.

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in August, the Saskatchewan Party government banned third-party organizations from presenting sexual education in school, as part of a suite of directives.

Another allows parents to pull their children from all sexual education courses, including human sexuality.

Children under 16 are also prevented from changing their names or pronouns at school without parental consent.

Lawyers on behalf of UR Pride, an LGBTQ group in Regina, took Saskatchewan to court over the pronoun directive. The government then enshrined the rule into legislation in late October and invoked the notwithstanding clause.

Remenda Swanson said she害羞草研究所檚 still left with questions, as her book talk in Humboldt would have had nothing to do with teaching sex.

The author said she would have shared how she and her family navigated her son害羞草研究所檚 coming out in Edmonton in 2002.

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Sexual assault centres, which are among thosebanned from presenting in Saskatchewan schools, have also said they害羞草研究所檙e perplexed, as they teach about prevention and consent.

Instead of presenting at her old school, Remenda Swanson said she held her talk at Humboldt害羞草研究所檚 public library in November.

She was sad there were no young people in attendance, she said, as it can be difficult for LGBTQ youth to attend public events that touch on the topic of coming out if they aren害羞草研究所檛 ready or won害羞草研究所檛 be accepted.

害羞草研究所淔or kids, their lives revolve around three places: their families, their friends and school. And school has to be a safe place,害羞草研究所� Remenda Swanson said.

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She said she害羞草研究所檚 been involved in promoting equal rights ever since her son came out. He is now 37 and engaged.

害羞草研究所淚 just felt that he should have the same rights and ability to live his life to the fullest.害羞草研究所�

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