Our family recently moved to South Surrey. We are thrilled with the beauty, conveniences, and combination of both abundant nature and the services and amenities. As a family with three children, aged, 11, 6, and 4, we frequent local parks where our children love to scooter, enjoy playgrounds and sometimes enjoy a picnic.

On an early September trip to our neighbourhood park, my husband planned a longer two-hour stay as the children played an imaginary survival game, finding blackberries and fallen sticks as they navigated the area with laughter and innocence.

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Is it not in times like these, when the community should join forces to provide support?

Instead, we have seen repeated community opposition to affordable and supportive housing in various Greater Vancouver communities, and this is nothing new. This includes disdain for those surviving under the roof of a thin nylon tent shelter.

The reality is that this is much like any stigmatized experience, including substance use challenges. Often those struggling are judged and labelled by society. Only when a loved one, or oneself, experiences unexpected job loss, a growing dependency on alcohol or other substances, or experiences a string of bad luck, do people sometimes see that their judgments have been unfair and not based on fact but on the stereotypes they often grow from.

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Our family is blessed with financial security and health, but we understand that the realities of relying on a tent for shelter, being evicted from a home due to prohibitive costs, and other factors, can happen to anyone, no matter their background or position.

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When we can help, we should do exactly that.

Rachel Thexton is principal of and a resident of South Surrey.