A beautiful recovery story came to a tragic end when 20-year-old Ben Baker died of an accidental overdose on Jan. 23.
The family has started a GoFundMe to help purchase two benches in Ben害羞草研究所檚 name.
The first bench is to go in West Kelowna, while the other is to go across the street from the treatment facility in New Westminster that gave Ben what his stepdad describes as his best years.
Stepdad Ty Summach says Ben害羞草研究所檚 journey with substance abuse started about six years ago.
害羞草研究所淗is best friend Jaxsn Cahill passed away, that was a major traumatic experience. He also got involved with some bad relationships, romantic relationships that also were not healthy, and it just progressively got worse.害羞草研究所�
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Ben overdosed for the first time in 2020.
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Summach says Ben got progressively worse and spent a period of time living out of his car.
In January 2021 Ben overdosed again.
害羞草研究所淭he RCMP showed up at our house to tell us that he had passed away. When the RCMP were at our house they then realized he actually wasn害羞草研究所檛, the over 20 minutes of CPR they did get a pulse.害羞草研究所�
Doctors gave him a 50 per cent chance of survival and said even if he did wake up, it害羞草研究所檇 be likely Ben would have permanent brain damage.
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Summach says Ben made a miraculous recovery and decided to get treatment.
Summach and his wife then did everything they could to advocate for Ben to get treatment with the Last Door in New Westminster.
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When Ben was released from hospital they took him straight to treatment.
Summach says Ben had this idea in his head he would only be there for 30 days.
害羞草研究所淗e became a part of the fabric of the Last Door for all of the last two years. It was a game changer for him.害羞草研究所�
Summach says it was incredible to watch Ben go through recovery and be a support for other teens in similar situations.
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Ben completed the 12-step program and it was then time for him to navigate life outside the treatment facility.
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Ben stayed in New Westminster and near the Last Door. His parents helped him find an apartment to get on his feet.
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Summach says over the past few months, Ben was taking more steps back on his recovery journey than steps forward.
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害羞草研究所淏ut we had this sixth sense of him going back to New Westminster, but at the same time he was going to recovery meetings, he was doing the right things, and he again had one step back.害羞草研究所�
Summach says that害羞草研究所檚 the thing with current street drugs, 害羞草研究所渋t only takes one step back and that can be it and it does not discriminate on who you are.害羞草研究所�
To keep Ben害羞草研究所檚 legacy alive, the family created a GoFundMe and has purchased memorial benches in Ben害羞草研究所檚 name.
害羞草研究所淥ne bench is going right next to his best friend害羞草研究所檚 bench, Jaxsn, at the new West Kelowna skate park, so those boys will be together skating. The other one that we害羞草研究所檝e purchased is going to go directly across the street from the Youth Door where he lived, that害羞草研究所檚 where his community and second family are, and we really hope those two benches can be a place where his community and his peers can remember him and gather and talk about recovery, hopefully be inspired to either get clean or stay clean.害羞草研究所�
Summach says they害羞草研究所檝e surpassed the $10,000 fundraiser goal and all remaining funds will be given to the Last Door.
害羞草研究所淲hether that is helping subsidize a bed for another family. Whether that is helping them open up more programs. Everything else raised will be put toward that.害羞草研究所�
Summach hopes the funds will give families a better chance of getting loved ones into a place that actually works.
For those who may be in a place similar to where Ben was, Summach says, 害羞草研究所淚 think just reaching out to places like the Last Door, everyone is willing to have a conversation. I would just say have that conversation and continue to advocate for yourself. It wasn害羞草研究所檛 easy for us to get Ben into the Last Door, but we advocated for ourselves. We felt like if we couldn害羞草研究所檛 get him in then we would potentially lose our son.
害羞草研究所淩each out to these resources. They are there, they are hard to find, but hopefully what we害羞草研究所檙e doing here is shining a light on a place that actually works.害羞草研究所�
Learn more about Ben害羞草研究所檚 journey or donate to the fundraiser by visiting .
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