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Alberta transgender teen takes action after being deadnamed in yearbook

Deadnaming refers to the name a transgender person was given at birth but no longer uses
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Remi Laboucane, shown in a handout photo, says he was overcome with frustration when he saw he had been identified by the female sounding name he was given at birth next to his yearbook害羞草研究所檚 graduation photo. THE CANADIAN PRESS/HO-Remi Laboucane **MANDATORY CREDIT**

Remi Laboucane says memories of being bullied were finally fading, memories so awful he switched schools.

He was graduating from high school this summer, ready for life害羞草研究所檚 next chapter, when he opened his yearbook to see that he and other transgender students at Foothills Composite High School in Okotoks, Alta., had been deadnamed.

害羞草研究所淚t was just a nightmare,害羞草研究所 the 18-year-old said in an interview.

害羞草研究所淚 wrote a letter (to our principal) and I said, 害羞草研究所楾his isn害羞草研究所檛 OK, and this needs to be fixed.害羞草研究所

害羞草研究所淏eing called by my first name, even by accident, is just weird. It reminded me of the past, and those memories are not always good to look back on.害羞草研究所

Deadnaming refers to the name a transgender person was given at birth but no longer uses after transitioning.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary called it one of the most searched words in its online dictionary in 2023. Transgender advocates say as awareness increases, so does the practice of deadnaming.

Laboucane said being deadnamed reminded him of the difficult times he faced before he started high school, when he was bullied by peers for coming out as non-binary.

害羞草研究所淭hen when I came out as a trans person, it just got worse. I was just like, 害羞草研究所業 can害羞草研究所檛 do this,害羞草研究所櫤π卟菅芯克鶟 he said.

害羞草研究所淚 said to my mom, 害羞草研究所業 want to move schools, and then I enrolled into Foothills.害羞草研究所

By the time high school began, Laboucane had chosen his new name and notified school administration.

His teachers changed his name on their attendance lists and high school went by smoothly with 害羞草研究所渘o trouble,害羞草研究所 Laboucane said 害羞草研究所 until the yearbook.

The school and school division have taken action.

The school said it will reprint pages with the correct names and make them available to anyone who bought a yearbook.

Foothills School Division said it is making changes to its yearbook guidelines to ensure deadnaming doesn害羞草研究所檛 happen again.

害羞草研究所淲e understand how upsetting and hurtful this error is for the students and their families who were affected, as well as for the entire (school) community,害羞草研究所 the division said in a statement.

Kristopher Wells, the Canada Research Chair for the Public Understanding of Sexual and Gender Minority Youth, said the concept of deadnaming has been happening for years.

He said it has gained prominence recently, especially on social media, as governments worldwide pass legislation to curtail LGBTQ+ rights.

害羞草研究所淒eadnaming came up colloquially or from the slogan, 害羞草研究所楾hat害羞草研究所檚 not my identity; that person is dead to me,害羞草研究所櫤π卟菅芯克鶟 said Wells, a professor at MacEwan University in Edmonton.

When people deadname, he said, it害羞草研究所檚 often to prove a scornful point.

害羞草研究所淚t害羞草研究所檚 often used in a very discriminatory way,害羞草研究所 he said. 害羞草研究所(It) is really an assault on their identity.

害羞草研究所淚t害羞草研究所檚 premised on this notion that gender identity is not real.害羞草研究所

Wells said deadnaming could soon become a bigger issue in Canada, given changes in some provinces.

In Saskatchewan, the government invoked the Charter害羞草研究所檚 notwithstanding clause last year to pass a law requiring parental consent for students under 16 to change their names or pronouns in school. New Brunswick also put in a policy requiring parental consent for those under 16.

In Alberta, the government has promised to make changes so students 15 and under need parental consent. Students 16 and 17 won害羞草研究所檛 need consent, but their parents would still have to be notified.

Wells and Laboucane said such policies risk outing transgender and non-binary youth to their families, potentially placing them in harm害羞草研究所檚 way.

害羞草研究所淪adly, the reality is not all parents support their LGBTQ children,害羞草研究所 said Wells.

Laboucane added, 害羞草研究所(The policies)make it feel like the world is against you.

害羞草研究所淎 lot of people need to understand.

害羞草研究所淚t can be very freeing to go by a different name.害羞草研究所

害羞草研究所 With files from Mickey Djuric in Ottawa and The Associated Press

Fakiha Baig, The Canadian Press

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