It was mid-day on May 20, 2016, when a shirtless man suddenly loomed over a couch and started stabbing.

Derek Descoteau, then 20, and his girlfriend Janelle Guyatt were in the basement suite of Descoteau害羞草研究所檚 dad害羞草研究所檚 house in Chemainus, eating lunch and watching a movie. Descoteau died that day from multiple knife wounds. Guyatt survived, albeit requiring several surgeries for nerve damage that will never completely heal.

Five years later, the pain still fresh and the case still before the courts, Descoteau害羞草研究所檚 friends remain a constant source of comfort to his family.

害羞草研究所淲e are still so thankful that Derek害羞草研究所檚 friends have continued to welcome us into their lives 害羞草研究所� so many stories, memories, tears and laughs,害羞草研究所� noted mom Brenda Smith of Duncan. 害羞草研究所淛anelle and her parents, Leah and Bill, have become an important part of family. We are amazed at the strength Janelle showed throughout her surgeries, constant pain and physical rehabilitation. She害羞草研究所檚 just a beautiful girl inside and out, she is a hard worker and is now focused on her future.害羞草研究所�

害羞草研究所淎s the five-year anniversary approaches, all the intense emotions that we first experienced on that horrific day come rushing back 害羞草研究所� it seems like yesterday.害羞草研究所�

The trial of Colin John, the man accused of the second-degree murder of Descoteau and the attempted murder of Guyatt, opened in 2018, but remains unresolved 害羞草研究所� partly due to a long period of determining his mental fitness to stand trial and partly due to COVID.

The future that was taken away from Descoteau for no apparent reason is still tough for the family to fathom. But the amazing will of his friends to never forget him has provided strength to Brenda, her husband Steve, Derek害羞草研究所檚 dad Paul and his wife Tammy, Derek害羞草研究所檚 sister Paula Phillips and family, and numerous other relatives.

The family had already experienced tragedy just three years before Derek害羞草研究所檚 death when his brother Dustin was killed in a car accident.

Memories of both brothers are forever linked to a memorial cruise that started after Derek害羞草研究所檚 death and the DD memorial site on the road to Port Renfrew that has grown to include a pathway, garden, seating area and overall tributes. People linked to the pair make a habit of stopping there regularly.

害羞草研究所淭he Renfrew memorial cruise was our ritual to celebrate Derek害羞草研究所檚 life, but with COVID it will be cancelled for the second year,害羞草研究所� said Brenda. 害羞草研究所淲e visit the site often in small groups, but it害羞草研究所檚 not the same.害羞草研究所�

Regardless, the site will always remain a place of healing.

害羞草研究所淓very time we drive up, we literally bump into somebody there spending the afternoon,害羞草研究所� said Brenda. 害羞草研究所淲e害羞草研究所檙e just totally surprised for how much respect people have for the site 害羞草研究所� just seeing all the signatures, people from all over. I think this site is what saved us. It害羞草研究所檚 a place so many people use.害羞草研究所�

There has also been a memorial ball tournament in honour of the brothers that ran for two years in 2018 and 害羞草研究所�19 before also being halted by COVID.

害羞草研究所淚t害羞草研究所檚 just non-stop the respect all of his friends have for him,害羞草研究所� Brenda said. 害羞草研究所淲e focus all that energy on positive thoughts and trying to be strong for all the people around us.害羞草研究所�

While there害羞草研究所檚 no replacement for the losses, their family from all the friends has actually grown larger.

害羞草研究所淭hey all feel like my kids,害羞草研究所� said Brenda. 害羞草研究所淔ive years later, his friends are starting to get engaged, buying houses, having babies and we害羞草研究所檙e sad that Derek never got to fulfill his dreams and we will never know what his life would害羞草研究所檝e looked like.害羞草研究所�

Her husband added his wife isn害羞草研究所檛 someone who害羞草研究所檚 going to curl up on the couch.

害羞草研究所淵ou害羞草研究所檝e got to deal with it, but nothing害羞草研究所檚 going to change the fact he害羞草研究所檚 gone,害羞草研究所� reasoned Steve Smith.

Derek was very industrious and likely would have been well set up, approaching the age of 26.

The entire family has obviously followed John害羞草研究所檚 case very closely. He currently remains at the Colony Farm Psychiatric Hospital in Coquitlam, pending the continuation of his trial.

The prosecution side of the trial wrapped up in August of 2019 before the defence lobbied for an assessment of John害羞草研究所檚 mental fitness. He was deemed fit to continue by the Review Board in October of 2020.

There will be a formality this August for the court to confirm he is fit to stand trial that害羞草研究所檚 due to resume in mid-November with the defence side of the case.

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