^Canadians are passionate about their hockey.

But sometimes parents of young children can take their passion for hockey too far, yelling at referees and players, behaving in an inappropriate manner.

In light of recent incidents across B.C. and the wrapping up of the hockey season, the Capital News asked members of the Kelowna Minor Hockey Association why they think some parents behave inappropriately during hockey games.

Head coach of the association Quintin Laing said there害羞草研究所檚 a connection to the game for parents, but he hasn害羞草研究所檛 had to ask a parent to leave or had any incidents in his year as a coach.

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Overall, Kelowna Minor Hockey association referees agree that bad parent behaviour is not an issue in Kelowna, but they have a few ideas on why parents take things too far.

For the 2016-2017 hockey season, head referee Gord Hynes said about six parents had to be asked to leave the stands, out of around 1,300 games in a season.

He害羞草研究所檚 been called every name in the book as an official, but verbal abuse is not limited to hockey. Hynes said he sees yelling and abuse towards officials in other sports as well and added social media has made it more noticeable with hockey.

Dedicated referee Kelly McKenzie who comes from Edmonton, has been an official for 23 years and has had experiences of parents who take cheering too far.

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Hockey is an expensive sport. In minor hockey, parents spend $400 to $500 to play recreational hockey and between $700 to $900 for rep in registration fees. The price does not include travel expenses and accommodations. To join a hockey academy, it typically costs more than $30,000 a season per player.

The chances of becoming an NHL legend are slim, however. Since the turn of the century, only two members from the Central Okanagan, Josh Gorges and Justin Schultz played in the NHL.

Dave 害羞草研究所淢ac害羞草研究所� McClellan has been involved with the Kelowna Minor Hockey Association since 1978 and he believes parents become more invested in children because of how expensive hockey is as well as the lack of accountability with players and parents, who don害羞草研究所檛 want to take responsibility for their actions.

The most verbal parents, McClellan finds in Tiers 2 and 3.

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The officials say coaches are responsible for controlling the game, not the referees.

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Less friction between parents and coaches lies with proper training of young officials.

The hockey association has introduced headsets to allow experienced officials to guide young refs through a game.

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As a parent and a coach Diano Zol agrees with Laing, saying he hasn害羞草研究所檛 seen a lot of bad behaviour from parents and says he thinks it害羞草研究所檚 more prominent with hockey because it害羞草研究所檚 the country害羞草研究所檚 national sport.

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The Kelowna Minor Hockey Association lists on its website a code of conduct which is to be expected from parents.