The world has changed but the message is the same. We must never forget. We must listen and learn.

My father, many aunts/uncles, grandparents served in the military and I try not to miss the annual Remembrance Day ceremony held outside every year. During the moment of silence I swear I can feel them with me 害羞草研究所� a reminder of what has come before and the sacrifices made.

In my mind, I often equate the word 害羞草研究所榲eteran害羞草研究所� as someone who is elderly. This however, is far from the reality.

There are military veterans walking among us every single day. They害羞草研究所檙e not wearing a uniform or draped in medals but are an important part of our community. In fact, it could be the guy next to you buying groceries.

One such individual is local south Okanagan resident, Retired Cpl. Eric Hentzelt who, in the 1990害羞草研究所檚, at age 23, entered the infantry reserves, and then a year later joined the full-time regular forces.

He started his career in Kamloops, B.C. and then was transferred to Gagetown, NB. Within a few months, he shipped out to what was then the country of Yugoslavia. As part of a NATO peacekeeping unit, the mission was to enforce that all sides in the conflict adhere to the terms of the peace treaty. For Hentzelt, this was a life altering experience.

害羞草研究所淭he main problem, is that we (the peacekeepers) had rules to follow, while the other side had no regulations, decorum, and no desire to accept foreign direction,害羞草研究所� he says.

害羞草研究所淗aving grown up in a peace-loving country like Canada, there害羞草研究所檚 no way I could害羞草研究所檝e prepared for the ugly brutality associated with what is now referred to as ethnic cleansing. No war movie or news program, no matter how accurate, can come close to the human toll that it takes. The inhumanity and brute cruelty towards fellows humans, regardless of age or gender, is impossible to imagine unless witnessed first hand.害羞草研究所�

Hentzelt, with his troop, faced hostilities and experiences that no one should have to go through. He states that the NATO group was 害羞草研究所渙ften met with direct aggression of locals who wanted to keep the depravity going. No one could ever come from that and be the same person as they were before. I害羞草研究所檇 never want any civilian to actually understand because the cost is too high.害羞草研究所�

害羞草研究所淭he Canadian military is mostly a peace-time military and each man or woman is serving their country to the best of their abilities under difficult and demanding circumstances,害羞草研究所� he says.

Hentzelt points out that the military can be a good place for young people to learn new skills, get a professional trade, all while being housed and fed, but it can be stressful too.

害羞草研究所淵ou have to have a good attitude, work hard, and be ready to take orders,害羞草研究所� he says.

害羞草研究所淭he military often serves communities across Canada with support in natural disasters like floods, wildfires and ice storms. New exercises, like Mali, have the Canadian military in a support role but still within the conflict zone.害羞草研究所�

For Remembrance Day, Hentzelt would like to remind everyone of all ages, that our parents, grandparents, and other family members fought hard to keep Canada free and peaceful so we害羞草研究所檇 never have to experience such atrocities as those he witnessed in Yugoslavia.

害羞草研究所淗undreds of thousands of men and women have served Canada to give us the freedoms we have today.

The ability to speak and live freely was paid for in blood and tears, both physically and mentally. We must remember the fact that many service personnel didn害羞草研究所檛 get a chance to return home to enjoy these privileges. Please be aware and appreciate those who are bearing the scars, obvious or invisible, and for those who paid the ultimate price for freedom.害羞草研究所�

Thank you for your service Cpl. Hentzelt. It is very much appreciated. I害羞草研究所檇 also like to note that Hentzelt害羞草研究所檚 son, Blake, age 19, is now also serving with the military.

I wish him a long and successful career.

Lest we forget. Wear your poppy. Go to a Remembrance Day Ceremony. Teach your children.

Faye Arcand is a freelance writer living in the South Okanagan. She can be reached at faye.arcand@icloud.com or .