When my son started preschool two years ago, he became friends with a cute redhead who wore dresses every day and occasionally threw a punch.

This spirited child liked pink, wearing ribbons in his hair and was referred to by his male birth name as well as male pronouns 害羞草研究所� as per the request of his family.

He was born a boy, but presented himself to the world as a girl, and only time will tell where he lands. It piqued the curiosity of his fellow three-year-olds who recognized there was a difference. They didn害羞草研究所檛 mind, of course, but they were curious in the way kids are curious.

When my son asked why his friend dressed like a girl, I said 害羞草研究所減eople can dress whatever way they want, everyone is different害羞草研究所� and he moved on, completely satisfied.

Fast forward a couple of years and he害羞草研究所檚 at a new school where he害羞草研究所檚 made new friends. He害羞草研究所檚 now close compadres with a two children from same-sex couples.

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Once, when observing a difference between one of these families and ours, he noted how much 害羞草研究所渃ooler害羞草研究所� they are and lamented it must be because he only gets one mommy. Then he asked why and I told him that was simply decided by a 害羞草研究所渞oll of the dice.害羞草研究所�

Honestly, I didn害羞草研究所檛 know whether these were the right answers at the time. I still don害羞草研究所檛. I do know that as he gets older the questions he poses will become more nuanced. The critiques from those around him may become sharper, and the instinct to follow the herd may be harder to avoid than I like to imagine. In an ideal world that herd will be mild mannered and kind, but I害羞草研究所檝e read Lord of the Flies.

That害羞草研究所檚 why we all need a little help to better understand these differences and how best to address them. The Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity 123 program attempts to do that.

For those who don害羞草研究所檛 know, the SOGI program is a set of resource materials addressing race, ethnicity, religion and ability issues that lead to bullying. It also approaches the issue of sexual orientation and gender identity, which caused frustration and upset all across the school board this week.

There害羞草研究所檚 a group that seems to feel this information being available is somehow an assault on their 害羞草研究所渄emocratic rights,害羞草研究所� to quote one of the speakers referred to in our Page 3 story (link above). While I could use this moment to question their understanding of the concept of democracy, I害羞草研究所檇 rather use it to ask how they could possibly oppose something that will allow children who have long since been stigmatized, bullied and ostracized a ladder into greater acceptance.

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The world has changed, and in this case, for the better. People are different and there害羞草研究所檚 no reason for those differences to be anything other than accepted.

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