Almost half of first-year students think they have fewer friends than their peers, a new UBC-Harvard study suggests.

In surveying more than 1,000 UBC students, researchers found that 48 per cent of first-years believed other students had made more friends that year that they did, while only 31 per cent believed they had more friends.

No suprise: Students who felt like they had fewer friends than their peers felt worse about themselves, and that feeling held them back from making new friends.

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Those feelings of inadequacy are probably linked to how public students lives are because of all the communal space in universities, as well as social media.

害羞草研究所淪ince social activities, like eating or studying with others, tend to happen in cafes and libraries where they are easily seen, students might overestimate how much their peers are socializing because they don害羞草研究所檛 see them eating and studying alone,害羞草研究所� said Chen.

害羞草研究所淭hese feelings and perceptions are probably the strongest when people first enter a new social environment, but most of us probably experience them at some point in our lives.害羞草研究所�