ANGP?

It means All Night Grad Party. I know, I know, you don害羞草研究所檛 need a lecture about safety, drinking, drugs, or making smart choices. After all, you害羞草研究所檙e a senior and about to graduate 害羞草研究所� you know it all.

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Note to parents/aunties/friends: If you have an agreement with a young person to call you (no matter what time or circumstance) to pick them up, then just do it. Don害羞草研究所檛 lecture or judge or ground because believe me, next time they won害羞草研究所檛 call.

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9. Don害羞草研究所檛 be a statistic. You don害羞草研究所檛 want to be that roadside memorial tribute with the fake flowers and half filled balloon flopping in the wind. A dead teenager kills all their potential. Get it?

10. Last, but definitely not least have some respect for yourself and others. Stop and think about how your actions, words, and choices are a reflection of who you are and how they can affect another.

Have fun, but be safe.

Faye Arcand is a freelance columnist living in the South Okanagan.